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10 Romantic and Sexy Leap Day Date Ideas

2/26/2020

 
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This Saturday is February 29, and the last time that sentence was written was 1992.

Leap Day comes once every 4 years, and Leap Day on a Saturday graces us just once every 28 years. So make the most of this freebie day by filling it with love, sex, and romance.

  1. Take a leap of faith and get married. Or renew your vows or commitment. Talk about bold!
  2. Take a literal leap with an afternoon jumping date, like a trip to an indoor trampoline park, going skiing, or attending a horse show.
  3. Make a time capsule together. Write each other a love letter and stick them in an envelope with a recent photo of you together. Don't open it until the next leap day in 2024.
  4. Come up with 29 ideas together of ways to make your sex life sparkle. Buy a sex swing? Use a blindfold? Try to beat your personal sex-in-one-day record? Make the list, and start checking them off on February 29.
  5. Splurge! This day only comes once every 28 years, so take this special Saturday and pour as much time, money, and romance that you can muster. Spend the night in a luxurious hotel. Get a couple’s massage. Pop champagne. Treat yourselves!
  6. Give yourselves a redo of a past fail. Was Valentine’s Day a bust? Did you try to cook their favorite meal recently, and burn it? Was a new sex act you tried awkward and fumbly, or maybe a romantic evening turn into an argument? February 29 is a free day, so you get a do-over.
  7. For the couples who like to learn and geek out together, read an article or watch a video about the orbital mechanics of the earth and the social constructs of the Gregorian calendar that bring us the Leap Day to begin with.
  8. Beat a world record. Why not have some fun trying to beat the record for longest kiss (58 hours, 35 minutes, and 58 seconds), the most orgasms in one hour (134), or longest ejaculation distance (18 feet, 9 inches).
  9. Try the Leap Day appropriate Leap Frog sex position.
  10. Have sex all day. I mean…

August is National Romance Awareness Month

8/31/2018

 
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Romance is the language of love- it's how you express connection, caring, admiration, attraction, and lust to your partner. There are endless ways to be romantic, but some of the more popular gestures include:

💕 Holding hands
💕 Greeting them with a hug and a cheerful "I'm glad you're home!'
💕 Cooking them dinner
💕 Leaving them a short and sweet love note
💕 Paying them a random compliment
💕 Asking them to go for a leisurely walk together
💕 Giving them a playful squeeze on the butt
💕 Fixing them an ice cream sundae or other treat
💕 Surprising them with a small gift, like a flower weed you picked, a candle, bottle of wine, or piece of chocolate
💕 Drawing them a warm bath
💕 Seizing the opportunity for an impromptu makeout sesh, like I did with my husband Ryan earlier this Romance Month on the beach. The pic turn out pretty sex, eh? ;)

Make this last day of August count!

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