"Dr. Jill approaches difficult issues with such compassion and lack of judgment that even what you might expect to be a hard conversation is easy. It is easy to be open with her, and she offers suggestions and ideas that are sensible, meaningful and useful."
One-on-one coaching is for folks who are:
• Seeking empathetic understanding and clarity about a question or concern they're having about their sexuality. • Ready for a transformation in the way they exist in the world as a sexual being. • Just want to feel good already- about their bodies, sexuality, and relationships.
Informed by my training in sexology, mindfulness, and positive psychology, my approach to sexual wellness coaching is a non-judgmental shift away from the cultural emphasis on diagnosing problems and fixing what’s wrong, and toward a model of building on strengths and leveraging what’s working to move you forward from sexually distressed -> to satisfied -> to flourishing!
"She is concrete and pragmatic, and works as a partner to set out a detailed plan to get you from where you are to where you want to be, without judgment. If you are reading this and debating about whether sex coaching with Jill is for you, DO IT!"
Clients hire me when they want to:
Increase sexual desire
Reconcile mismatched libidos
Overcome shame about sexuality
Deepen passion and intimacy
Build sexual confidence
Make a relationship decision about dating, commitment, or marriage
Maintain erections and learn to have orgasms
Strengthen communication skills or resolve communication issues
Rejuvenate a sex life that feels routine or boring
Emotionally and sexually thrive
"Through her advice and expertise I was able to identify and correct some really bad habits that I have obtained... and start making myself truly happy again. Dr. Jill is more than just a sex [coach]. She's truly and overall just an amazing person."
I offer coaching packages that include:
One-on-one sessions via phone: 45 minutes each. Your first ever session is 60 minutes.
Goal tracking: You'll have access to a private coaching app where you can update your sexual wellness goals in real time, and track your success in motivating bar charts.
All session notes:I will send you a personalized message in our app after each session that outlines the action plan toward sexual wellness we came up with together.
Unlimited communication:Have a question? Need support? Want some accountability between sessions? Want to celebrate knocking out a goal? Message me anytime and I will respond within 24 hours Monday-Friday.
Progress reports: A comprehensive monthly before and after sexual wellness assessment to track your growth and success on 25 dimensions of sexual wellness.
Check-in options: After successful completion of your coaching, you'll have access to an exclusive add-on option for a super discounted once a month check-in sessions to help keep you on track in the long-term.
"I'm a coaching client of Jill's, andI couldn't recommend her more highly. She approaches coaching as a gentle friend, counselor, and supporter... and Jill has an incredible ability to help you put words to the fears and goals you've only dared to hold in the periphery."
I'm here for results, are you?
There are no outcome guarantees, and your results are highly determined by the effort you put in. That said, here are samples from actual self-evaluation scores on a 1-10 point sexual wellness scale from my real coaching clients over the last 12 months:
Have questions? Check out these FAQs:
Where are coaching sessions held? Anywhere in the world, as I meet with clients via phone! Upon purchasing your coaching package, you will receive the phone number on which to call me during our scheduled appointments.
How long is the waiting list to do coaching with you? I am only able to take on 10 clients, so sometimes there can be a short wait, but I currently have spots available. Book yours here!
How will I know if sexual wellness coaching is for me? If you're unsure about coaching, which coaching package to sign up for, or what to expect, complete this brief form about what brings you here today and what you hope to get out of working with a sex coach. If I think it's a good fit, I'll email you an invitation to book a free 15 minute discovery call so you can get a feel for what I do, and get your questions answered. If not, I'll recommend other services I think would be better for your sexual wellness needs.
What is the cost? Whether you merely have a quick question about your sexuality that Google just can't answer, or if you're ready to develop deep, sustainable new sexual habits and mindsets over the long-term with lots of support and accountability along the journey, there is a way to work with me at every price point.
“A truly positive experience. She breaks down daunting goals into smaller, more digestible, steps. With Dr. Jill I know that I have accountability and someone to celebrate my wins with!”
Jill McDevitt, PhD | San Diego, CA | firstname.lastname@example.org