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September 11-13, 2020

Taking place at a tropical waterfront resort in sunny San Diego, California, the 2nd Annual Sexual Self-Care Retreat is for people who know that sexual self-care is critically important, but for whatever reason, still aren’t practicing it.
  • Are you not speaking up for what you want and don’t want sexually?
  • Do you struggle to communicate your boundaries without guilt?
  • Do you find yourself saying and doing unkind things to your body?
  • When life gets busy or stressful, is pleasure the first thing you cut off the priority list?
  • Are you holding on to society's “shoulds” about sex and your relationships?

Then my friend, it's time to retreat yourself!
Dear women and non-binary femme folks who worked more than 40 hours last week, feel guilty not answering work emails at 10pm, and can’t remember the last time they had down time, played, or did something just because it felt good:

YOU WERE NOT BORN TO JUST PAY BILLS AND DIE!

But culturally, we’ve all grown up believing that pleasure of any kind- from orgasms to sleeping in to going on vacation- is frivolous. The narrative runs deep that spending time on our own wants is lazy, unproductive, undisciplined, even greedy. Trust me, I've been there!

A pleasure-centered sexual self-care retreat is an act of revolution. When you book your spot, you are taking control of your own life and refusing to submit to the lie that sacrificing your joy is a noble way to live.

This is a POWERFUL thing you're doing.

Join me to discover the essential lifestyle and mindset practices that no sexual being can afford to live without!

Your Sexual Self-Care Retreat includes:


FOOD. All meals plus snacks, including a 3 course prix fix menu at the gorgeous on-site restaurant featuring locally sourced California cuisine and a tiered fountain.


EXPERT-LED WORKSHOPS. Five interactive, play-based, impactful workshops with topics on sexual wellness, communication, body image, boundary setting, and orgasm.

SEX COACHING. Two private one-on-one sessions, which will take place in a tropical secluded gazebo and a tropical beach cabana, to solidify your sexual wellness goals and set you up for success.
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EMPOWERMENT. Self-love and care isn't just a slogan here. Get ready to walk away from this retreat feeling powerful, confident, and strong- all words used by past retreat guests to describe what they learned about themselves.

WELCOME PARTY. A champagne toast and unboxing party where you'll dig into your goodie box that includes an exclusive workbook, vibrator, and other sexual self-care fundamentals.

GROUP ACTIVITIES. Fourteen intimate small group activities including sexuality-centered meditations, body-positive crafting, private beach yoga, and other experiences rooted in personal reflection and self-celebration.
PLAY. Access to the resort pool, hot tub, duck pond, lush greens, private beach with comfy oversized beach cabanas, and rescue harbor seal sanctuary, plus a cruise on the bay with dancing and live music.
BONDING. Life-long friendship may not be something you come for, but may get anyway. Learning from and connecting with other women on a profound level was the biggest and best surprise for last year's retreat guests.

Your Sexual Self-Care Journey By the Numbers

4.5
The star rating out of 5 on TripAdvisor for our resort space based on 4,917 reviews. This place is paradise!


20
Number of luxurious beach cabanas for you to nap in during down time.
6
The number of installments available with the payment plan to make this investment impossible to pass up on.


100
Percentage of past retreat guests that anonymously rated 10/10 that
"Dr. Jill created a space at the retreat that made me feel safe and heard"
8
The number of people the retreat is limited to, because intimate group learning is so transformative.


184
Days until our retreat begins!
As of March 11, 2020

About Your Retreat Host

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I’ve been a professional sexologist for 13 years and this Sexual Self-Care Retreat is THE culmination of the best of my life's work and includes a little of everything I’m most known for:

  • my most popular workshops
  • my most beloved sex ed activities
  • my tried-and-true coaching techniques
  • my thought-provoking writing
  • my vibrator expertise
  • my compassionate social justice framework
  • my treasured San Diego sunshine

...all packed into one weekend.

Consider this my greatest hits album, and I'm only selling 8 copies. To be one of the 8 of 2020 to undergo a true sexual wellness transformation- Act now!
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Frequently Asked Questions:

  • Is this for women only? This retreat is open to all women and non-binary femme folks over the age of 21.
  • How do I get to the retreat? All activities will be happening at the spacious Bahia Resort and Hotel, located on Mission Bay at 998 W Mission Bay Dr, San Diego, CA. Parking is free at the resort if you'll be driving. It's a 15 minute and approximately $18 Lyft ride from San Diego Intentional Airport if you'll be flying.
  • What is not included in the retreat price? Airfare, overnight hotel accommodations, gratuities, incidentals, extra excursions, alcohol (other than the champagne toast at our welcome party), and travel insurance (recommended).
  • Where should I stay? You can book a room on site at the Bahia Resort. The Dana Resort and the Hyatt Regency Mission Bay are also within in half mile walk/drive to our retreat space.
  • Should I pack anything in particular? Don't forget your swim suit, beach towel, sunglasses, hat, and sunscreen! I encourage you to dress comfortably and casually. You may want to bring a sweatshirt because it can get cool in the evenings.
  • Is my payment refundable if I need to cancel? The retreat is NON-REFUNDABLE.  However, if you must cancel and you provide notification in writing on or before July 15, you may apply your registration fee to another service (like 1:1 Sexual Wellness Coaching,) within 12 months. You can also transfer your registration to another person so they may attend in your place.
  • Is there anything else I should know? Yes, please consult the Terms and Conditions that by booking, you are agreeing to abide by.